Relationships are a complicated thing because they can be going along just fine and then all of a sudden one bad thing happens and someone, if not both people, gets angry and never speak to each other again. I see this happen to just good friends that aren't in a relationship here at school. They just have a big fight with their best friend and then next thing you see is them talking to someone else and totally ignoring their first best friend from like first grade. In my opinion whenever you have a fight with someone you should maybe take a few minutes to cool down and let out your anger on your own. After that you should go back and work out whatever problem came up and fix it so you don't hate each other forever. My best friend and I are very different. She's into music and chemistry and I'm into farming and milking cows. We've been best friends since second grade and like most people we've had some fights. The difference between us and maybe a few other people is that we talked out the problem and apologized and stuck together. The relationship between couples is a little different than relationships between friends. However one part I thing is the same is that even though you and the other person are in a committed relationship you don't have to like the same things, or want to go to the same places, or be the exact same person because you can be two different people and still make it work. Just make sure when you fight you talk out the problem and find a solution. Don't just ignore the problem all together or pretend like it didn't happen, because the reality of that is it did happen and if you are upset about something the only way the other person is going to know that you are upset is if you tell him/her. Don't be afraid to confront the problem only be afraid of what will happen if you don't. Just when you do the confronting make sure you're not mean to the other person or blame the whole problem on the other person.
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